Sunday, September 8, 2013

IRRESPONSIBLE PARENTING, Part III

Any woman subjecting to becoming impregnated by a man--"she knows before hand", to be a deadbeat dad who has, unashamedly, fathered multiple children by multiple women and, has been negligent regarding all his responsibilities as a father--"extremely debases herself". She also risks that her child could suffer encumbrances of having to grow up without the advantages of a responsible father; and unless she is of financial means, there is, too, the likelihood that her thoughtlessness could result in the responsibilities for financial support of that child being dumped onto the shoulders of others (society) who bore, no responsibility or involvement in the conception of, that child. The number of fathers who commit this woeful evil, against their own children, seems infinite and society seems to have become accustom to this callous practice with a disposition of, near tolerance of it. There are men having the inglorious reputation of fathering beyond a score of children and, by multiple women. A certain level of the most grotesque character is prerequisite, on the part of men who can lie down at night with a full stomach and sleep in blissful oblivion, entirely unconcerned about the welfare of children "they" caused to be born and then, had coldbloodedly abandoned. Trifling, negligent men who try evading their "natural and moral" obligation to dutifully apply themselves to all aspects of responsible fatherhood are heartless hindrances to a well-comported society. They are impediment nuisances, burdensome drags, unprincipled and ignominious parasites, who turn their backs on reponsibilities to children "they" caused to be born. They take as weakness, and then exploit, the goodwill of others (society) who take up the slack to support "their" children. If an able-bodied man were to present himself at your doorstep, with his multiple offsring at his side (each of which born to a different mother) and said to you that he needed to get on with his life; that "his" children impeded that need and therefore, he was dumping into "your" lap, all of "his" parental responsibilities; how, would you respond? Father-creatures or, deadbeat dads,whose children are supported by public largess are doing, in tantamount, precisely that.

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